What an Assistant Should Remember, and Forget

Long-term memory is what the agent remembers across conversations. Without it, every session starts from zero — the user re-explains their job, their tone preferences, the project context, and the bug they reported yesterday. With it, the agent feels like a coworker; without it, it feels like a customer-service hold queue.

Before you store everything
  • Users complain the agent "forgets everything" between sessions
  • You stuffed the whole user history into the system prompt and it costs $0.20 per question
  • You don't know how to forget when the user asks you to